When is too much too much?

Hear me out on this: God calls us to be servants of all. But when is too much too much? Our love language is serving (my husband and I) but when is too much too much?

I ask this because people have and continue to try to play on that fact with us. Regularly. And it’s starting to really tick me off.

Ha. That’s a lie. It’s not starting to.

We always try to be Christ like – but even Jesus had a point where He said no right?

My question is: when do you say no?

Okay now that I think of it? When it affects your walk with Christ or when it affects your marriage. Right?

I’ve never understood why people would say no otherwise. If someone needs help?

Not gonna lie and say I ain’t shrug from responsibility ever. But have I been in the wrong?

Obviously I’m a people pleaser so there’s that – but is that what makes me confused?

I’m finding more and more I’m saying no but because of reasons that are out of my control – like my health.

Now I think of it – maybe that’s the answer. I mean if you physically can than you should.

But that doesn’t mean you have to right?

Yet it shall not be so among you; but whoever desires to become great among you, let him be your servant. And whoever desires to be first among you, let him be your slave—

Matthew 20:26-27