I gotta tell you when I met my husband? My heart went and skipped a beat – or something that sounds romantic. I dont know about that one. He was a cutie. My husband is sweet. My husband is a blessing. My husband drives me absolutely insane. and I wouldn’t have it any other way.
I’m not gonna sit here and tell you marriage is easy – cause I have gone over that. But I love my husband, deeply. And I think people have forgotten the simple fact that marriage? Is so freaking difficult! I blame hollywood – but man I was so disappointed on so many levels on certain things.
I had ideas.
I had notions.
I had a picture.
When I got married – I knew my husband was gonna act and be a certain way. I KNEW it. I knew he was gonna be that way – I knew it cause I willed it.
Yeah….I knew nothing yall
I heard this song – oh my goodness, I can not think of the words. But it was from the 80’s about a man who was gonna be the shining knight for his girl. That was gonna be my story. He was always gonna stick up for me and he was gonna win all my battles….
For real though – thats not marriage. He is not meant to be my knight in shining armor. I mean the man sweeps me off my feet – but my knight in shining armor is who it should be.
Think about it … we are human right?
We are gonna have off days.
We are gonna be rude….ugly….sinful…..human.
The only one that complete us? The ONLY one who will fulfill us?
Oh my word I love my husband more deeply than words can describe. But we do not complete each other. That job is left for Jesus.
Its the only way we’ll last forever ya know what I mean?