With the abuse that I received? I grew up as a huge people pleaser. Now I don’t care what people say – it’s not necessarily a bad thing. Okay yeah I heard that too. People pleasing is not a good thing. The only person you should try to please is Jesus. Facts. But I grew […]
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goody two shoes
wait … is that how you say it? Hold on…hey google! Yup. Good two shoes. I wonder how that came to be a saying. Anyways, I was always a goody two shoes. Acting the way I thought people wanted me to be. Dressing the way I was “supposed to” and so on. Remember people pleaser? […]
Approval
I sent a message to someone the other day .. just to vent and I got a speech. And to yet another person, did the same. Got the same reaction. Y’all I wasn’t looking for approval just some sympathy. Then it hit me – wasn’t that just looking for approval? I have always been a […]
Loving the unlovable
loving the unlovable is something that God has been trying to teach me for years. Maybe preparation for the teen years? Maybe preparation for full time ministry? I dont know. What I do know? Its a freaking hard lesson to learn. For real folks. No words can describe how much I hate this lesson – […]
just write
sometimes i need to just write. to get all these ideas in my head on page somehow….like i dont care how it looks or how it sounds….i just need to get it out. I spent most of my life – quiet as a mouse trying not to offend. Cant say that around this person …. […]
you think you know? You dont
“Jessica you are such an inspiration. You are so perfect at everything.” ha. definitely not perfect. definitely not. I can get you examples if you want. It comes down to this: when you think you know things about people? Thats when you finally realize – You don’t. You definitely don’t know … anything. I have […]
My ministry
Y’all for years and I am talking years … I was praying about being in a ministry. Then I thought my ministry was in the church. Then i thought my ministry was as an influencer (stop judging) and then and then … you see where I’m going with this? I was always looking to the […]
When is too much too much?
Hear me out on this: God calls us to be servants of all. But when is too much too much? Our love language is serving (my husband and I) but when is too much too much? I ask this because people have and continue to try to play on that fact with us. Regularly. And […]
How Jesus Changed Me 